Probably you didn’t know this, but a majority of the women can’t orgasm through penetration alone. You will need to stimulate other parts of her body – areas such as the breast and nipple, the thighs, and the clitoris. In this article, we are going to focus mostly on the clit. The clitoris is one the most sensitive parts – if not the most sensitive – in a woman body. Stimulating it directly mostly results in the woman having the craziest and the strongest orgasm. In my experience, I realized even during penetration, clit massage plays an important role in helping the woman cum. There are a number of tricks that you can use when stimulating her clit. They include the following;
Suck and nibble – during clit massage, instead of just licking her, use your tongue and lips to suck her clit. Given the sensitivity of the nerve fibers on the vulva, sucking the glans or the head of the clit, as well as nibbling lightly on her outer and inner labia will stimulate her until she goes nuts. Also remember, sucking the clit increases blood flow to the vulva and the clit, increasing the woman’s chances of achieving an orgasm.
Draw circles – by circling around the clit, you also increase stimulation to unthinkable levels. So, the next time you and your partner decide to go at it, consider using your fingers or tongue to make circular motions around the clit and then see for yourselves what happens next.
Hinting – while drawing these circles, how about you try hinting by focusing more on the area near her clit, and then only directly touching her clit occasionally. So, try using your to flick around the clitoris without touching it directly and I can assure you that she will orgasm like crazy.
Use your imagination – when flicking over her clit with your tongue, imagine you are painting a fence from top to bottom – alternating between up and down. Also, imagine your tongue being a windshield, and move your tongue from side to side over her clit. This will drive her absolutely insane.
Don’t forget the shaft – a lot of attention is focused on the tip of the clitoris, which is the part located at the top of the vulva, but still, what people don’t know is that the vulva two extending ‘legs’ that extend up to five inches inside your body. These ‘legs’ are referred to as the shaft. So, during role play, slide your fingers to both sides of her clitoral shaft, and then push and pull the clitoral hood all across her clitoris, making diagonal, circular and spontaneous un-choreographed fashions, with the aim of staying unpredictable.
So basically, these are just a few tips on how to play with the clit for stronger orgasms.