Majority of the time, we always hear advice on how you can have a better relationship, better sex or a better orgasm. But how often do we hear advice on how we can actually understand our deepest desires in better way? For instance, often times are when we buy a sex toy, and despite all the imaginations and fantasies on using the toys, you actually get a hard time in trying to understand how the damn thing works or how to use it for maximum pleasure. The thing is; a lot of women judge themselves for not knowing how to use a vibrator or even masturbate, but what they forget is that in reality, masturbating is not always instinctual, and that you will have to learn what you like. That’s why I am going to try and explain how you should use a vibrator after buying it;

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The first step is for you to try and understand you vibrator better; learn what it’s designed to do. There are lots of vibrators in the market today and each and every one is designed to fulfill a specific desires. There are those vibrators that are designed to stimulate the clit, while others are designed to stimulate the G-spot. So you will need to understand what vibrator does what. From there, familiarize yourself with the settings, and determine how intense the vibrations are, and also how the vibrators pulsate.

Secondly, ensure that you are turned on first. Ensure that you are in the mood before using the toy. Vibrators produces some serious intensity, and so, if you try to use them before being turned on, they could get really uncomfortable. Watch some porn, it would really get you in the mood. Also, before hitting the actual spots, do some teasing first; it will turn you on like crazy. Thirdly, ensure that you use lube, as it will the experience even more pleasant. Also, it will help the toy glide against your skin. Lube also makes penetration easier, and without any pain.

Start slow. When you are ready to use the vibrator, start from the lowest setting. Given that vibrators can be super intense, so, consider pitting the vibrator on a basic pattern setting, going up. Also, figure out what level of contact you like. Some women like holding the vibrator directly against the clit, while others don’t like much sensation. Maybe hold the vibrator against your labia, or try stimulating yourself with your underwear on – this way, you will for sure enjoy the sensations. Lastly, ensure that you find your hot spots. Some women like clitoral stimulation while others like stimulation on their g-spot. Whatever your hot spot is, just make sure that you figure them out first – for maximum pleasure.

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